This idea comes up so often, maybe I’m not intuitive enough. Maybe I missed the gift. Maybe others have something I don’t. And I want to speak to that today. Because connection isn’t something only certain people receive. It’s not something you earn, unlock, or have to work toward for years. It’s something you already have. You might just need a moment of remembering.
In this episode of Tuesday Talks with Darleen, I explore what it really means to be spiritually connected, and how intuition isn’t about being special. It’s about being open, being honest, and noticing what’s already there. These are not just ideas. They are invitations to slow down, reflect, and lead from truth.
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Intuitive abilities look different for everyone
We all have intuitive abilities, and they don’t all look or feel the same. Some people hear clear messages. Others sense feelings in their bodies. Others get images, nudges, or even sudden clarity they can’t explain. There isn’t one “correct” way to receive guidance, and none of it is more spiritual than the rest.
We live in a world that tends to celebrate dramatic signs or dramatic stories, but that’s not the only path. Quiet knowing is just as sacred as loud revelation. A tingle in your body can be just as meaningful as hearing a full sentence in your mind. What matters is that you begin noticing what shows up for you, because that is where your connection begins.
Sometimes you’ve been connected all along, but life has been noisy. Sometimes you trained that awareness out of yourself because you were told it wasn’t real. But the truth is: it never left you. You are already intuitive. You’re already receiving. The question is what are you noticing?
You don’t need to earn spiritual connection
There’s a common belief that you have to meditate for hours, attend enough workshops, or heal deeply before you can be considered “spiritual enough.” But none of that is true. You are already spiritual. You were born that way.
The idea that you must fix yourself or purify your energy before you can be intuitive is built on shame. It suggests that if you’re still struggling, still doubting, or still hurting, you don’t qualify. But that couldn’t be further from the truth. You don’t connect because you’re perfect. You connect because you’re you.
Your past doesn’t disqualify you. The mistakes you think you’ve made don’t separate you from your own spirit. Awareness is what matters. It’s not about being healed. It’s about being present. You are not broken. You’ve never been broken. And you don’t need to prove anything to begin remembering what you already are.
Feeling blocked doesn’t mean you’re not intuitive
It’s natural to have times when you don’t feel connected. Maybe your cards don’t make sense. Maybe you don’t hear anything when you try to tune in. Maybe everything feels flat or foggy. That doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong. It just means you’re human.
In fact, a lot of what we call being “blocked” is actually part of the process. Energy shifts. It moves. It quietens. It rises again. There’s nothing wrong with you if it feels like things have slowed down. You’re not failing. You’re learning.
Trust is something you build slowly. Doubt is part of the path. And getting it “wrong” sometimes is part of learning how you uniquely receive. You don’t need your intuition to look like anyone else’s. You don’t need your experience to be loud or magical. You need it to be real. Start with your body. Start with what you notice. That’s where connection begins.
Final Reflections
You don’t have to be gifted to be connected. You don’t have to be extraordinary to be intuitive. You don’t have to be perfect to be spiritual. You are already all of those things, just by being here. You’re not waiting for something outside of you to arrive. You’re returning to something that was always within you.
Wherever this finds you, may it be a reminder that you are not behind, not unworthy, and not broken. You’re simply remembering. And remembering is enough.
Here for the links that may have been referenced in the show or is complementary to this episode.
- Podcast – Ep 166 Why You Have Energy One Day…Then Do Everything The Next
- Podcast – Ep 165 Procrastination Is The Message. Here Is What It Is Saying
- Podcast – Ep 82 The Power Of Gratitude and Manifestation Practices in Business Growth
More in-depth content and resources:
- Blog Post – Boundaries That Speak With Love
